One thing I definitely have learned - They are more in love with the “idea” of being a great person than in actually being one. More in love with the idea of being a great parent than in actually being one. They just want the admiration.
They do not do the necessary work to actually achieve the role of being a great husband/wife or parent. They don’t believe that they need to. They are great just because of who they are. If you don’t support that, then once again they are just a misunderstood victim, their greatness being overlooked once again.